Self-doubt is one of the main reasons why people fail to manifest what they desire out of life. There is no other way around it than to go forward, you have to face your doubt head on in order to overcome it. Self-belief can be instilled, although it is what we were born with. Over the years self-doubt sets in and then we have fear of failure taking control. So naturally this is the first step in getting what you want, be self-assured, but not pushy. Become too pushy and you will find yourself filling up with over-confidence, and that is as bas as self-doubt. Once you have found the confidence to tackle new things in life then this is the time you should focus in on your desire, ask specifically that this desire be manifested.
Start manifesting the smaller things you desire, no reason to go straight for the BIG million without having placed a few test orders on your list first. Apply your mind power to exactly what it is you want to have happen, be exact in what you request. Place your order through your mind when in a high vibrational state (happy, feeling positive, etc), specifically word that order in a positive way. Send it in a flurry of positive thoughts and feelings and remain in an air of expectancy so as to keep the positive thoughts working on manifesting the order. Then allow that order to act on its own accord, do not keep thinking of that order or constantly sending the power thoughts out, as it will nullify it. By all means strategically place subtle reminders around you of what the order was for, as that maintains the vibrational state of the power thoughts.
Stop harbouring grudges against those who have wronged you, it just holds you back when you really want to be in the NOW. Learn to forgive others so that you can release yourself from being held captive by the very negative thoughts around you. You are not forgiving others just for the sake of it; you are forgiving them so you can set yourself free.
Have you noticed how some people are successful without even trying; they seem to glide through life. What is their secret? Simple! They are focused! This is what you must do if you want what you desire. Do not waste your time on the detail of it, just go for it BIG time. Successful people have the ability to change direction without any warning. Adopt this methodology and become flexible to life around you so that you can become a winner. This is what sets winners apart from losers.
Fear can get in your way, and fear of accepting help is a sure way to expedite your downfall. Always accept help without flinching or thinking about what you will have to do to repay it. There’s nothing to fear if you have control over what you are allowing others to do for you, so relax. Never be afraid of failure, as this is something that can be used to show you how to avoid it in future.
Accept the encouragement and support of those around you, and always be thankful of it. There are those with negative minds that may well seek to discourage you, these are not supportive people, avoid them as they are dead weight.
Just a few words here about those that seek to disempower you. Do not allow such talk or dominance to get you upset, just avoid it, move away from these people. Do not allow them to get under your skin or to disrupt your equilibrium. When people infect you with their negativity then this, without you realising it, can set off a chain of events that you might find hard to immediately put a stop to. Just stay resolute in your self-belief, and look at the bigger picture.
Look at what you have and give praise for it, as it is easy to lose sight of what is around you. See your loving family and friends as allies. Feel good from not having hunger in your life, feel good for the life you have. Never despise yourself for failing, as you are far from that. If you see yourself as a success now then that is something that will stay with you. Work towards a larger success, build on what you have. If you live in a shack then see yourself living in a mansion. If you ride a boneshaker of a bicycle then see yourself driving a limousine! Right now that second class boneshaker is better than third class walking! Be clear about what you desire, see the new car with all its whistles and bells … you get the idea!
When you think about what you desire then feel comfortable with getting whatever it is. If it’s a new car you desire then feel you deserve it, think of yourself driving it, and see yourself in it and how your friends admire you for that. Be unselfish with yourself and those around you, give of your time and of yourself whenever you can, as this is the law of tenfold return. Accept praise for what you do for others and see how good it makes you feel to be in demand. Others will see you in a new light and want to have some of that pizzazz you have, set the stakes high and always seek to attain them. When you give to others then do it because it makes you feel good, do not do it begrudgingly or it will only come back at you in a negative way.
Wherever possible, mix with like-minded people. If you all have the same goals for success then this can have a synergistic effect and propel you forward faster than if you tried on your own. If you sense bad vibes in the group then you have to detach from them. It is also important that you get to spend some time on your own, as this is when the creative part of your mind can work at its best in making your dreams come true. Spend time reflecting on what is negative and what is positive in your life, then have a clear out!
Don’t take things too seriously, enjoy what you are doing and make it something you want to do, as opposed to what you have to do. Learn to control yourself, become good at spotting when you are starting to worry unnecessarily and counter it with positive thoughts. Look at your position in life now, then project your thoughts forward to six months ahead and see the difference. Make that happen, condition yourself that it WILL happen.
You never really see successful people looking worried. Their faces are not etched with lines of worry, they are happy, vibrant people. Even in the face of adversity these people still smile and it defies logic, or seems to. Take a leaf out of their book and do the same, it is amazing what a smile can do and it is understood in every single language on Earth. If you go around looking glum then that is your state of vibrancy and people will sense this, so have a high state of vibrancy about you and eventually you will and people want to befriend you, and popularity can improve your luck.
With all of hat I have revealed to you I hope you can now put it into action and make it work for you, in fact I know this is your first real step towards success. Go for it in a BIG way.
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