My vision became blurred and I began to the world in terms of targets, obstacles, wingmen, AMOGs, etc. Social dynamics were at the forefront of my mind and I didn’t see else.
The over focus HURT more than it helped. I was obsessed with pick-up and it was far from attractive. Learning social dynamics was only ONE ASPECT of what I needed, I was viewing it as the world.
Armed with my routines, tactics, and strategies, I did get some results. Girls laughed, were attracted, made-out with me, even went home with me…but I was far from reaching my true potential. I was still the awkward, nerdy guy that needed community in the first place, and I knew it. I wondered if my inside view of myself was ever going to change.
Then I got insight that changed my way of thinking.
* Form unshakable character, integrity and personality. That stuff is the “substance” that women feel when they meet a man of true value … versus a clowny, over-zealous, scripted, overly cocky, or outright “weird” pick-up artist.
* I understand the importance that voice is power, and when you own your voice you own your power. Your voice is a powerful tool and simple tricks like removing “uh” and “um” and replacing those with a deep breath will make all the difference in the world.
* Peacocking with “color pop” in place of of over the top pick up garb. It is as simple as incorporating a vibrant color into your outfit. It is a subtle way to peacock that is powerful!
After I started to incorporate these methods into my game, there was a change, a relief, that came over me. I was no longer trying so hard, and my mind became at ease. Try these tactics out, and be confident knowing your game is on its way to the next level.