A lot of romance advice ask you to do things that can be rather gimmicky. While this is a valid approach, another way to be more romantic relies less on planned external activities and more on improving how you interact with your partner. This improvement or enhancement is often called charm.
If you’re the no nonsense type of guy and you suddenly dazzle your partner with a lot of charm, your love life will get a tremendous boost. Nothing is more powerful than contrast when it comes to getting the attention of your woman. She’ll be very much turned on and intrigued by this seemingly new side of your personality.
Charm comes naturally to some, but there’s hope for the rest of us because with practice, anyone can learn it. Three tips:
1.) Be alert to whatever makes her smile or laugh.
If you have been with your partner for a while and already know her well, there will always be subtle things that you should look for. There could also be things happening on a day to day basis that makes her feel good.
Listen and observe these things. If you say or do anything that makes her happy, keep doing it.
Keep mental notes of these things for future use. She’ll be immensely pleased when even the smallest things about her don’t escape you.
2.) Cultivate a great sense of humor.
Another method of getting her to smile and laugh is saying humorous things. You don’t have to act like a clown, just try to see the lighter side of things. Being silly in a playful way can work very well.
Be careful of her vulnerabilities or insecurities. Humor is a very spontaneous thing that doesn’t allow much time for reflection on appropriateness.
3.) Be exuberant in how you live out your life.
Always find the good in people and the world around you. Enjoy every occasion. Put your whole heart into the things that you do.