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Using the Law of Attraction to Build Your Child’s Self-Esteem

Are you the parent of a child who readily joins activity groups, participates in sports programs, and completes all the tasks required by his teacher, but never seems to be the one who stands out?

He is never the one who gets that extra nod of attention, or receives recognition or awards for being outstanding in whatever situation he is in.

You know he is bright, puts his best effort forward in everything he does and by all accounts does fine, but each time seems to be out shined by those few children that excel at everything they attempt.

Have you found yourself wondering why your child doesn’t seem to have that little extra edge that those that excel have that makes them just a bit more aggressive on the basketball court, or just a bit more “polished” when they give an oral presentation in class?

What do these children possess that your child doesn’t?

The answer is “self-esteem.”

So you say, “Okay, that’s easy…I just need to tell him more often how great I think he is and reassure him of how smart and talented I know he is!”

Raising your child’s self-esteem is not a simple, one answer fix.

Building healthy self-esteem is a process. It is a process that will grow and expand over time. You are right, however, in realizing that it is something that starts with you, his parent.

The process can begin at anytime in your child’s life. Of course, it is easier to start when they are very young, but building self-esteem can begin at any point in their lives.

Regardless of when it is started, the process is the same.

You, the parent, need to start by having an understanding of the principles of the law of attraction.

If you are not familiar with the law of attraction, there are shelves and shelves in every bookstore with numerous books and programs explaining the Universal law of attraction. I recommend choosing one that appeals to you.

Parenting using the law of attraction is based on the universal law that states what you think and believe you will create as your reality.

So, the first task at hand is to help your child understand this law and how it works.

The basic premise you need to convey is that everything begins as a thought. Your child needs to understand the importance of his thoughts.

Example: Negative thought: “I hope I can get the ball and make a basket at the game today.” Positive thought: “I am going to score five baskets today!”

This example demonstrates the difference between wanting to succeed and believing you will succeed.

The point is to encourage your child to think about himself and his capabilities in a positive way. This can not be done by simply sharing your opinion of how wonderful he is. He knows how much you love him! Unfortunately, in his eyes, the fact that you love him will lower the credibility of your words!

That is not to say you should ever stop praising and showering your child with encouragement.

Your child, however, needs more than the opinion of someone he knows loves him to gain the kind of confidence that will allow him to reach his full potential.

The second part of this process is designed to help your child understand that what happens in his life is within HIS power.

The law of attraction teaches us that we all have the power within us to control what thoughts we will accept and focus on and which ones we will reject. The thoughts we choose are the thoughts that will determine what IS.

Helping your child repeat this “positive mindset” exercise will help him develop the skill to think only positive thoughts and as he sees the positive results from these choices, he will know that he can accomplish whatever he wants to.

He will now have “confidence” in his abilities in whatever situation he faces.

The absolute beauty of the law of attraction is that it works all of the time for everyone. There are no conditions to be met for the principles to occur in your life.

Whether you believe it or accept it or even completely understand it, it IS working.

It will work against us by thinking negative thoughts and it will work for us by thinking positive thoughts.

Your role as the parent is to teach your child how to use his power to CHOOSE what his thoughts will be.

The only difference between your child and those that have that edge to succeed is not that they are brighter, smarter, or more talented… the difference is they BELIEVE they can do whatever they choose to do.

The difference is in their thoughts!

About the Author:
Denny Hagel is the co-author of The Law of Attraction: The Next Generation and co-owner of Innovative Parenting LLC, a company dedicated to teaching parents how to raise their children using the principles of the law of attraction. For more information and insights click on:
=>http://www.InnovativeParentingLLC.com

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How to Solve the Problem by The Law of Attraction

Problem is a sign of life. The only people that do not have problems are the people who live in cemetery. We live to solve problems. People get paid and if they can do extremely well, they can earn significantly higher. We have to understand that the process of problem solving starts within our mind. To cross over the trouble water need courage and determination. This is the same with breaking obstacles. Here are the steps that we can conclude:


1. Write down the problems. We need to know what the problems we want to solve are. Give the situation background. What had happened and how did it happen? Write down the details of the event. There is a theory that once the event of problem appears through our brain by writing, the attached emotion will be dramatically reduced. We will get on the problem with less emotion. We will deal with it more with reasons. And we will be reasonable enough to sacrifice the emotion that we have left.


2. Appraise the situation. Ask ourselves how serious the situation is. What will happen if we do nothing with the situation? A lot of time, problem only originated in our mind and it may not even be problem in the eyes of others. We just mix problem with our emotional intensity and make the problem larger than it really is. Look into the problem using the third person’s eyes. Ask ourselves if it is still the problem if it happens to a stranger. Thorough analysis of the situation will help us come up with the solution and some time proper action to deal with the obstacle.


3. Write all possible choices that you can do. Be creative. See the possibilities in all the angles you can look at. Omit the limitation on any resources that we may have. Write down as many choices that we can. See them without emotion. See it as we are suggesting them to a third person. Exclude ourselves out of the problem. The more we write the choices, the better chance that we can solve it.


4. After we have a list of all possible solution, choose what is appropriate in your circumstances. What type of the resources that we need to have to solve this problem. Do we need help from other people? What knowledge and skill do we need to acquire more in order to solve it? Do we need to consult a third party who is better in this area than us? Pick up five best solutions that we have written down. Decide which of the five we will do first. Make the decision that we will do it immediately without any procrastination.


5. Take actions toward the problem solution. Do the best you can on you plan to solve it. You may and you will fail in some attempt. Do not take it as failure. Just call it a feedback from your action and continue doing what you mean to do. Evaluate why you have not got the outcome and see if you need to change your approach.


6. Truly belief that the problem can be solved one way or another. Be in quiet place. Visualize that you can solve every problems that come into your hands. Imagine that you celebrate after breaking this obstacle. Regular visualization will attract the circumstances and attribute we need to solve the problem. It will make your life better according to the law of attraction.


A lot of time, problems that we have are not really a problem. We have to make sure that they are really a problem. When we solve the problems focus on the solution not the problems themselves. Most people are so overwhelmed with the problems that they do not see any solution to them. Have a strong belief that all problems can be solved if we determine to do it. Take immediate and continuous actions until the problems are solved. Do not stop or give up until we get what we want.


Problem solving is a skill. We need to practice in order to be effective in solving problem and breaking the barriers. The six steps laid out here are the systematic way to handle the problem.

Jim Somchai
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Online Dating – A New Era Of Dating

The era of ballroom romances, swirling dresses is almost history, with the tech oriented online dating sites .Until last few years you could shop for clothing and tickets online, but finding love online seems like a breakthrough in the world of computers.

There are umpteen websites that promise to find partners in the virtual world. The concept of online dating sites arose in the 90’s and has ever since become a rage. These websites is to provide a network for individuals to communicate through the internet with an objective of developing a personal relationship.

The websites require you to register with them by providing some of your personal information such as age, gender, cell phone number. A lot of these online dating sites also make it mandatory for the users to upload their photographs and browse photographs of other members as well. They use all such information to feed in to their database and then compare individuals that meet the criteria.

The users register themselves against a membership fee. The profiles can be further upgraded by becoming a premium member with increased fees as well as access. The USP of these dating portals is that the payment is accepted through credit and debit cards and for those who find it hard to pay all at one time, the options of instalment payments work wonders.

The concept of searching potential partners online has provided an altogether new approach to romance. Besides the online dating sites, now you can don different avatars and be a part of the virtual dating circuit. People who do not prefer to meet personally often resort to virtual dating which allows them to interact in a virtual venue. For those who think “seeing is to believe” there exists the concept of video dating. In a video date, prospective partners can see each other, chat with the help of webcams. The latest to join the bandwagon are the social networking sites. One can share personal information, photographs, hobbies and interests on these sites. The best part being you can share your views and thoughts in the form of posts and it allows your friends to comment on these posts as well.

Overlooking its rave reviews, even online dating has a few drawbacks
The sites often do not allow the members to preview or search profile until they pay the membership fee
Some expect the sender and the receiver, both to be paid members, in order to send or receive any messages.
At times the site owners create bait profiles to attract members
These sites often lack authenticity. People pretend to be single, when they are married and even misrepresent facts to allure other members.
In the past there have been lot of incidences where online predators have posed as potential singles and harassed their online partners.

Even though online dating is great concept for singles, but one needs to be wary of the information released online to ensure that the surreal world does not harm your real existence.

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The Subconscious Mind, The Law Of Attraction & Goal Setting

The basics of Goal Setting is an open secret known by top-caliber athletes, successful businessmen and businesswomen and all types of achievers in all the different fields from politics to acting. Accessing the subconscious mind and firmly implanting your goals there is critical to ensuring you will achieve those goals. Getting to grips with setting goals and invoking the law of attraction will give you short-term and long-term motivation and focus. They will help you set focus on the acquisition of required knowledge and help you to plan and organize your resources and your time so that you can get the best out of your life.


Consider this : The one thing high acheivers and self made millionaires have in common is the mastery of their minds – the most direct path to developing such mental mastery is to get to grips with your subconscious mind , Each one of us have billions and billions of brain cells at our disposal to aid us with our goal setting , Our subconscious mind is at work twenty four hours a day controlling our digestive systems as well as our breathing – we should take advantage of this knowledge to get the law of attraction working for us.


Here are some pointers that should be taken into consideration in goal setting and and using your subconscious mind and invoking the law of attraction to aid you in achieving them.


Attitude plays a very big role in goal setting and the achievement of those goals. You must ask yourself if any part of you or your subconscious mind is holding you back towards completing the simplest of tasks ? If there are any parts of your behavior that is being a hindrance (working against invoking the law of attraction) or puts your plans into disarray? If you do have problems in these areas then the immediate thing to do is to address this problem. Solutions may include using subliminal recordings focusing on specific aspects of your personality. Here are some areas of life to consider focussing on along with some additional pointers to help with moving towards the life of your dreams :-


Careers : are made by good time management practice. Failing in a career is often attributed to bad time management. Careers require a lot from an individual which often makes the career the life of the individual. Plan how you want to go into your career.


Education : is key in achieving your goals. If your goals require you to have a certain kind of degree or require a certain specialization or demand a certain skill to be developed, make plans in getting the appropriate education.


Pointers :-


1. Take passionate action towards living your life by design. Talk is cheap. Action = deposits in the bank of a passionately authentic future. Without it, passion is void.


2. Commit to yourself as well as those you love to create powerfully a life you can love. Instead of reacting, commit to creating from your heart and soul, out of love rather than fear.


Consider this : One neuron in your brain may be linked to as many as 50000 others; the brain is estimated to contain over 100 trillion connections. The total number of connections is higher than the number of atoms in the universe. Why not take advantage of this resource invoke the law of attraction and use your subconscious mind to aid in your goal setting ?


To start achieving your lifetime dreams by using goal setting, harnessing the power of your subconscious mind and invoking the law of attraction, set a quarter of a century plan, then break it down to 5 year plans then break it down again to 1 year plans, then 6 month plans then monthly plans, then weekly, then daily. Then create a things-to-do list for the day. Always review your plans and prepare for contingencies. The basics of goal setting should not be so difficult once you get to be familiar with them and with the use of subliminal recording you can readily address various areas of your life.

Stephen C Campbell (Master NLP Practitioner) has published more information on using the Subconscious as a Goal Setting tool at
http://www.usingyoursubconsciousmind.com

Law Of Attraction, Subconcious Mind & Goal Setting

The basics of Goal Setting is an open secret known by top-caliber athletes, successful businessmen and businesswomen and all types of achievers in all the different fields from politics to acting. Accessing the subconscious mind and firmly implanting your goals there is critical to ensuring you will achieve those goals. Getting to grips with setting goals and invoking the law of attraction will give you short-term and long-term motivation and focus. They will help you set focus on the acquisition of required knowledge and help you to plan and organize your resources and your time so that you can get the best out of your life.


Consider this : The one thing high acheivers and self made millionaires have in common is the mastery of their minds – the most direct path to developing such mental mastery is to get to grips with your subconscious mind , Each one of us have billions and billions of brain cells at our disposal to aid us with our goal setting , Our subconscious mind is at work twenty four hours a day controlling our digestive systems as well as our breathing – we should take advantage of this knowledge to get the law of attraction working for us.


With goal setting it is of paramount importance to invoke the law of attraction. By using the marvelous power that can be unleashed with the correct use of your subconscious mind you can bring more wealth, more happiness and more joy into your life starting today.


Positive thinking plays a very big role in goal setting and the achievement of those goals. Your dominant thoughts gets embedded into your subconscious mind and therefore these dominant thoughts end up becoming your reality as by default your thoughts are responsible for invoking the law of attraction and bringing coincidences and circumstances into your life. To control our thoughts it is important to use as many tools as possible which are available at our disposal such as the use of subliminal recordings.


Here are some pointers to assist you in moving towards your goals :-


1. Recognize and embrace the thought that each moment is perfect regardless of its outcome. Every time you hit on something that may appear too extreme, why not give it a shot and see if it will work.


2. Dwell completely in a place of gratitude. Learn to utilize what you have in your hands and make use of it in the most constructive way. Slipping into neediness will become less of a habit when you repeatedly shift towards gratitude, away from poverty consciousness.


Consider this : One neuron in your brain may be linked to as many as 50000 others; the brain is estimated to contain over 100 trillion connections. The total number of connections is higher than the number of atoms in the universe. Why not take advantage of this resource invoke the law of attraction and use your subconscious mind to aid in your goal setting ?


To start achieving your lifetime dreams by using goal setting, harnessing the power of your subconscious mind and invoking the law of attraction, set a quarter of a century plan, then break it down to 5 year plans then break it down again to 1 year plans, then 6 month plans then monthly plans, then weekly, then daily. Then create a things-to-do list for the day. Always review your plans and prepare for contingencies. The basics of goal setting should not be so difficult once you get to be familiar with them and with the use of subliminal recording you can readily address various areas of your life.

Stephen C Campbell (Master NLP Practitioner) has published more information on using the Subconscious as a Goal Setting tool at
http://www.usingyoursubconsciousmind.com