Back To Back: Two Good Reads On Entry Level Leadership And Culture

This month, I read two books back to back: Soldier’s Heart by Elizabeth Samet and Punching In by Alex Frankel. Both of these works are an excellent introduction into entry-level corporate culture and leadership development.

Soldier’s Heart is a civilian English professor’s take on the leadership culture of West Point, based on her 10 years experience as a faculty member. Professor Samet is in a rare, but well qualified position to pen Soldier’s Heart. Only a fifth of the academy’s faculty is civilian instructors; the rest are military officers on rotation or “regular Army.” Samet’s academic interest also makes her special; she has studied the dynamic of command and obedience in American literature.

Soldier’s Heart is not the first work about West Point by a soldier or civilian, but it comes from the most interesting perspective: an outside working inside.

Soldier’s Heart has a balanced look at the military culture. Samet writes that no cadet wants to be, in one cadet’s words, a “non-thinking slasher,” someone who would kill for the glory of war, or the sake of killing.

West Point is, and has always been, a literate culture. Classical literature through Armed Forces Editions educates and entertains soldiers in battle, and reinforces American values. She writes of books as weapons to spread ideas, and counter actions meant to curtail freedom. But she also states that tales of war talk of motherhood or a woman’s love for soldiers -but not a woman’s love for soldiering. There is nothing about motherhood in the military culture, but there is the need to fight for mother.

The professor adds that today’s military culture has conflated military missions with spiritual missions; soldiers become instructed to regain faith when there seems to be little cause for faith. However, that might be necessary instruction to lead at a time when officers, enlisted and veterans are questioning our nation’s involvement in Iraq, a war that they believe to be unnecessary.

This faith extends to open displays of the Seven Army Values: Loyalty, Duty, Respect, Selfless Service, Honor, Integrity and Personal Courage. Soldiers tape the Values to their dog tags. Soldiers also display the Soldier’s Creed, officially posted in 2003:

I will always place the mission first
I will never accept defeat
I will never quit
I will never leave behind a fallen comrade.

The Values and the Creed are possible not only because of the culture, but also because our soldiers are professionals who have chosen to serve. Samet sites one Army study that mentions that professional soldiers still fight for each other, as they did, for example in World War II, but they also accept the responsibility that Army has entrusted to them.

The Army, as an institution, has had mottos and mission statements longer than most American businesses, and has a culture where everyone must live by them. Some of the most successful corporations have copied the military’s strengths- and some of its imperfections. According to two online employment sites, GIJobs and CollegeGrad, 24 of the Top 50 Military Friendly Employers in 2007 also hired 100 or more college graduates for their entry-level positions. It is safe to say that these companies use the same values to develop and retain their entry-level and military transitional hires.

Which brings me to the next question: can those without the military orientation become as successful in these firms as those who have served with honor? The answer, according to Alex Frankel’s Punching In, is sometimes, if you can get along to go along.

Values, missions, attention to detail and duty are part of the dialogue in Punching In, another work where an outsider looks inside, and serves on the front lines of indoctrination into corporate culture.

Frankel worked in entry-level customer service positions at United Parcel Service (UPS), Enterprise Rent-A-Car, The Gap, Starbucks and The Apple Store, took online aptitude tests with two retailers: Best Buy and Home Depot and went through the lengthy interview processes at The Container Store and Whole Foods.

Like the Army, these corporations try to engage and turn their workers into fanatical and loyal employees. Interestingly enough, he refers to front-line workers as the Brand Army of these firms and called UPS the Other Army, because of the company’s esprit de coir and the spit and polish appearance of the front-line workers. Both the Army and UPS do not accept alteration, recreational display or desecration of their uniform.

Frankel respected UPS more than the other organizations, because their workers, especially the drivers, were the most trusted. He adds that this is necessary because UPS workers are all in the field. They can track their locations, but any problems must be solved on route. Each driver and their helper is like a platoon of soldiers; they must follow orders, but they have some lee way in how to execute them.

Frankel did not say the same about the other organizations. For example, he praised Enterprise’s efforts to motivate workers to believe that they can advance from desk clerks to regional managers – though he adds that further advancement is less possible. The company hires approximately 8,000 entry-level employees, although the rest of the work force is no larger.

Frankel shows how Starbucks has become a “third place,” a neighborhood-meeting place away from home and work, but believes this will be a difficult strategy to maintain because of the standardized appearance of the thousands of stores and employees. He considers Apple Stores to be an excellent setting for those who are already fans of the technology; they need little indoctrination and training as well. And he shows The Gap to be little different from other retailers who are loathed by retail workers, a company bent on standards and policies that put store design first, product second, credit card sales third and the employees last.

Like the Army, these organizations have a uniform, policies and shared values, but unlike the Army, they can hire and fire at will. It was interesting that Frankel conveyed the most respect for the organization that was the most like the Army.

Given UPS’ success – the company maintains 80 percent market share against several large competitors, including the U.S. Postal Services – that’s quite a complement for our troops and the men and women who lead them.

Stuart Nachbar has been involved with education politics, policy and technology as a student, urban planner, government affairs manager, software executive, and now as author of The Sex Ed Chronicles. Visit his blog, Educated Quest

Leadership Development — Create a Culture of Dialogue

Introduction 

In any organization, people are talking.  They talk about life, work, careers, and their bosses.  Yes, they are talking about you; count on it.   Are these conversations helping or hurting your ability to get results?  

What is Effective Communication? 

Leadership development efforts tend to focus on setting clear goals, hiring the right people, clearing obstacles, and communicating effectively.  But the leader’s ability to communicate is only part of the challenge.  How can a leader influence the conversations taking place when he or she isn’t there? 

Effective communications in a business are not limited to the leader’s ability to make good speeches, write effective emails and hold town hall meetings.  All of these things are valuable, but only to the extent that they impact other conversations.  After every speech or town hall meeting, people go off and talk among themselves.  What are they saying about your agenda?   

What if you could control all of those conversations? 

Well, You Can’t… 

Face it, control is a bit too much to ask for.  What you can have is the next best thing.  You can have confidence that people are talking about the things you need them to be discussing, and doing it openly.  To do that, you need to create a culture of dialogue. 

Culture simply refers to behavioral norms, so a culture of dialogue is one in which everyone is comfortable and expected to be engaging in conversations about their work, their work processes, and their leadership.  When the culture encourages open dialogue, it effectively shuts down destructive conversations, hidden agendas and other debilitating behaviors. 

In a culture of dialogue, it is safe — and you are encouraged — to say what you think.  People who tend toward silence are drawn in by peers who want to know what they’re thinking.  Key Opinion Leaders are identified and respected, and they make sure the leadership is getting honest, objective feedback on not only their leadership agenda, but on their behavior as well. 

Leadership Behavior 

Your ability to create a culture of dialogue is dependent on your own behavior.  What do you do when your plans are challenged?  What do you do when you make a mistake?   

Too many leaders have to be right.  They shout down challengers.  And let’s be clear, when you’re the leader “shout down” is not a literal term.  You can use your position to dismiss a challenger, and even ignore them.  It’s the same as shouting them down. 

To create a culture of dialogue, be willing to sacrifice your ego.  Your goals and agenda are important, your pride is not.  Be open to feedback.  Acknowledging critical feedback will have a huge impact on the culture, even if you don’t act on the criticism.  And you should only act on the criticism if, after careful consideration, you believe it is warranted.  You don’t need to be a wimp to create a culture of dialogue! 

For your part, make sure you criticize behavior first.  Don’t criticize or discipline people for anything other than bad behavior.  To create a culture of dialogue, your number one job is to make it safe for people to have important conversations, out in the open.  More than anything else, your behavior and the behavior of the other members of your leadership team will dictate whether or not people feel safe.

The organization that isn’t changing is dying. To learn more about Strategies for Managing Change, visit www.thomasjodea.com


Tom O’Dea has over 30 years of IT experience, with 20 years of senior leadership in IT and Professional Services with multibillion dollar corporations.

Ladies Wide Fitting Shoes – 3 Reasons You Ought To Wear Shoes That Are The Correct Size

Do you desire to know if you must wear ladies wide fitting shoes? Many ladies do not know if wide shoes are essential. In this article I am going to give you 3 reasons you ought to wear shoes that are the correct size.

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If you are like me then at first you may not have wanted to acknowledge that you had wide feet. I had never liked to go shoe shopping with my friends that had small size 4 narrow feet, I would whisper that I needed a size 9 wide or I would try to smash my foot into a shoe it had no business being in. This was not a good idea.

Reason #1 – Hammertoes

Have you ever seen a person sporting flip flops and their toes were curled around to the side or they seemed to curl under? This is commonly identified as the hammertoe. You can develop this by either sporting shoes that are too tiny or too narrow for you.

Reason #2 – Bad Circulation

By wearing shoes that are in fact too narrow for you can cause yourself to have bad circulation. If you know something at all about reflexology then you of course know that your feet are linked to all parts of your body. You will be healthier if you are nice to your feet.

Reason #3 – Corns

There are several ladies that have gotten corns on the side of their feet from wearing too narrow of a shoe. It regularly shows up on your petite toe and it is not at all attractive.

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Make sure that you are kindly to your feet. You only accomplish one pair and if you do not take care of those you may find yourself seated for longer than you would love.

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Search For Person – The Greatest And Effortless Way To Uncover Somebody On The Internet

Now with the the great capabilities of the internet you can easily search for person.Maybe you are wondering how you search for a person on the net.

Search For Person

When searching for a person on the internet it’s exceptionally not difficult. You can really do this a number of ways. You can search through popular search engines like google. Go into google and then just enter the first and last name of the person that you are searching for. If you are searching for a woman you might want to try the married name you know her under as well as the maiden name since she may have gotten a divorce and went back to the maiden name.

Search For Person

There is scores of information that you can attain online about a person. Using search for a person search engines makes it a lot easier to unearth this information. Instead of searching through google with it’s thousand or millions perhaps billions of records about several subjects you will be able to go into the people search engine that specializes in finding people.

You will have a awesome advantage over other people that are trying to use google search when you go into the people search engine. When you want to utilize the people search all you have to do is enter the first and the last name of the person for which you are looking. You also have the option to enter the state in which you believe they will be residing.

You will see a list of results after you do the search. They will come up in less than a minute depending on your internet connection but then you will be able to see information such as location, family members and age. With this information you will be able to see if that person was the correct person or if they just have the same name of the one that you are looking for.

Reuniting with people can be a terrific experience. There have been a lot of life long friends that have been reunited, family bonds that have been made and you can thank the search for people option on the web.

Although places like myspace and facebook are a magnificent place to locate the long lost loved ones, sometimes it’s just not going to work since one person may be interested in using facebook and the other is interested in using myspace. Maybe you are passing like boats in the night. That would be enormously sad. When you use a people search engine you will be much more likely to collect the correct information and get real results.

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On Flirting With Girls Using Ordinary Questions

I’ve heard many times that you’re not supposed to ask the “typical questions” when flirting, and that it can make you seem boring to the girl.

This is wrong in my view. It’s actually probably more weird to a girl if you don’t ever get around to asking about mundane aspects of her life.

Which “typical” questions are at issue here?

What do you do?

Are you studying for a big exam?

How old are your children?

How long have you lived here?

Can those questions lead to a dead conversation? Yes. Do they have to? No.

This is the magic formula:

BORING QUESTION FLIRTING RULE: If you ask a “boring question”, you must PLAY with her answer.

I often query a girl about her schooling or work upon first meeting her.

Then I get creative with her reply.

Here’s an example:

If she says she’s studying radiology, I’ll say “Oh, good, so if I were to break my leg right now, you’d totally help me out. You probably have X-ray equipment right in your backpack, right?”

Notice how the response is framed so she is willing to do your bidding. This is a useful frame. And the way it’s delivered, she’s usually more than willing to play along. That’s got to be a good thing, right?

It’s fun, it’s fresh, and you can use it all the time.

Take this approach for a spin. Use it on women you’re interested in, and even one’s you’re not interested in. It doesn’t hurt to get the practice in, and put a smile on someone’s face.

Use it with store clerks, your aunts at the family reunion, little old ladies. They all love it!

Tyler Paxon Ph.D. is the founder of the How To Flirt website. Take his free quiz at http://how2flirt.com