Indians Use Art Therapy to Reduce Anger

Like the rest of the global village, Indians also experience anger, that raw, powerful emotion that seems to take over our lives, consuming our thoughts.

Indian people use an art therapy technique, drawing “mandalas”, to help calm and express their rage in a careful and controlled way.

Mandala, is the Sanskrit word for “circle”. Within this circle the Indians say there are no rules, a space in which you alone exist. A place where you can let your feelings come out as a swirl of colours and lines.

The Times of India recently featured an article on how this process works.

How Mandalas Work

Participants find that once they finish drawing an angry mandala, they are tempted to draw a new, happy one, since their anger has been released through artistic expression. If you suffer from anger management issues, perhaps you should give it a try.

Participants like Manju Mohinani says:

“You get lost with the colours and the movement of your hands and thus you express yourself clearly without even realising it. The best part is that when you do mandalas you are not thinking, you get so lost in the drawing. You don’t feel that you are working on yourself, its so easy and so much fun.”

Manju is a real advocate of drawing mandalas – it’s the way she as dealt with her anger for years, stating that she just takes out paper and crayons and lets go. Once the drawing is complete, she feel at peace with herself again.

Drawing Materials is All That’s Needed

Drawing a mandala is very simple. All you need is a sheet of paper and a box of crayons or coloured pencils, the kind used in schools by children is fine. Mandalas are not an art, so you do not need to worry about how they look or whether you are doing them right or wrong. You’re not trying to create a masterpiece, the point of the drawing is to express how you feel.

Manju says:

“to sketch an anger mandala , just sit and feel your anger. When you feel, it clearly takes up the colour that fits the best. Then draw a circle on the paper and let the feelings emerge on their own. Let them get expressed inside the circle, using whatever lines or colours that come. Don’t censor yourself and don’t think, just let go.”

Participants find drawing mandalas is something that is easy to do, and is a novel way of revealing your true feelings, break down some boundaries and show that you are in control. And of course, if you are in control, you can take steps to solve the problem that was causing the anger.

The Benefits of Drawing Mandalas and What They Might Mean

The primary reason for drawing a mandala is to be an oulet for anger, but sometimes people see a certain significance in what they have drawn.

If you do give mandalas a try, have a look to see if your drawings are full of “fighting spirit”, passion and frustration shown by heavy, jagged, red lines? Are the drawings made up of more gentle, softer colored, curved lines, showing you are more depressed and apathetic about your situation?

Red, brown or black are the typical colours for angry mandalas. The shapes  and their position are also quite indicative of inner feelings. The overlapping shapes and black crosses and show a lot of anger. Anger spills over when your drawing extends beyond the confines of the circle.

Mandalas provide a way of dealing with turbulent events in our lives, providing an almost childlike way to express yourself and have fun. You might find that the drawing helps you understand a little bit more about the cause of your anger.

While there are plenty of other therapies, none are quite as much fun as mandalas .Using a crayon to scribble on a simple piece of plain paper takes us back to those carefree childhood days. It’s a satisfying and fun therapy. And remember, you do not have to understand your drawings, just the process of drawing the mandale is enough to relieve the burden of anger.

So, the next time you find yourself getting wound up, instead of grumbling and grizzling for weeks, just grab solme coloured pencils or crayons, place out a sheet of paper and let go. You will not only deal with your anger, but have a wonderful time doing it as well. And the best part, you will relish every moment.

Jane Hewlett is a freelance writer for www.helpfuladviceonline.com and has just published “Insider Secrets to Anger Management“.


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