How To Easily Persuade And Influence Others To Do Exactly As You Wish
Posted by Jasmine Baruch Xavier, under Self ImprovementIf you’ve ever been in conversation with somebody, and you wanted them to do something, or feel something, or think something, then this article is for you. Here I’ll show you some easy steps that you can take to easily and quickly influence others to your way of thinking. These ways are very powerful, and have been used by some of top salespeople, politicians and persuaders throughout human history.
Right off the bat, you need to develop rapport. Rapport is that feeling you get when you feel a deep connection with somebody. Like when you first meet this person, and you feel like you share a lot of things in common. Just be relaxed, be yourself, and look for similarities between you and the person you are trying to persuade.
Next is to elicit criteria. Criteria are things that they think are important about something. Like if they are buying a TV, it may be important to them that it be a particular dimension.
The more non-specific their criteria are, the easier it will be for you to leverage it. If they want to by a Sony, and all you have are Zenith’s then you’ll have a hard time selling them.
If their criteria are fuzzy, then it’s much easier to persuade them. Vague words like, happiness, security, entertainment, pleasure are much easier to fulfill than a specific brand and model number.
When you have a few vague words that are important to them, you are ready to go to work. Just convince them that by doing what you want them to do, they will fulfill all or part of their criteria.
This is best done indirectly, because if you use the direct approach you will sound too much like a salesperson.
For example, if they want to feel popular, and you are selling them a car, you can tell a story about somebody just like them who bought the same car, and he became really popular after he bought the car. Let your potential client connect the dots. The longer and more roundabout you tell the story, the better.
The more criteria words you get, the better. And the longer you spread out the conversation, the better. Just take your time, there’s no rush.
You might start to elicit his or her criteria conversationally, and then talk about something completely different, then tell a story about how a previous client fulfilled their criteria through your product. Then talk about more things not related, and then slowly fill each criteria on by one.
This is pretty easy once you get the hang of it, and the more you practice, the better you’ll get. By the time you finish talking to them, they’ll be virtually on their knees begging to do what you want them to.
Of course, make sure you don’t persuade them to do something against their interests, like buy a sports car for a family of eight. When you use this with their best interests in mind, you can create a lot of happiness in people..
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